It may be surprising to some of the readers because sometimes I date bimbos but I've dated some great professional women. This includes doctors, film producers, nurses, lawyers, paralegals, and editors at major publishing house so I've got a little bit of experience. In all honestly, these type of women are my only female friends. First reason is we got the sex out of the way. I've never had a attractive female friend without sex coming into play. Second, they give honest opinions without sugar coating. Third, I have a rule that I do not go backwards. If we didn't work out there is no reason to try and have sex with them again and I think that they respect that.
Ok, so why are they single and why didn't I lock one down. I don't have the proper answer but I think it is a combination of the intelligent female over thinking things and creating a timeline progression for a relationship. They have created a life with goals, dates, degrees, and everything followed a timeline from High School to now. Here is a secret "Love doesn't follow a timeline". For a guy like me I need a natural flow and progression. I need to chase you a little and you need to chase back without either person trying to conform the other into their life. This No Pressure philosophy is like slow cooking ribs. Put on low heat and let it sit and the meat will fall off the bone and the guy will fall in love.
That and hide the bridal magazines. I'll run for the hills so fast if I see those.
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